meson: Replace softmmu_ss -> system_ss

We use the user_ss[] array to hold the user emulation sources,
and the softmmu_ss[] array to hold the system emulation ones.
Hold the latter in the 'system_ss[]' array for parity with user
emulation.

Mechanical change doing:

  $ sed -i -e s/softmmu_ss/system_ss/g $(git grep -l softmmu_ss)

Signed-off-by: Philippe Mathieu-Daudé <philmd@linaro.org>
Reviewed-by: Richard Henderson <richard.henderson@linaro.org>
Message-Id: <20230613133347.82210-10-philmd@linaro.org>
Signed-off-by: Richard Henderson <richard.henderson@linaro.org>